Why is my child behaving like that? – Part 1

Behavior can be a mystery. It’s not always obvious why we humans do what we do. We might even be blind to the reasons behind our own behavior at times.

If you have a child with autism, their unique way of interacting with the world around them can make their behavior even more difficult to understand, especially if they aren’t able to tell you what’s going on because they have limited or no communications skills.

Thankfully, ABA therapy can help us uncover the reason behind a child’s behavior. Just as important, it can help us find the most effective ways of positively responding to their behavior that supports their needs and well-being.

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 More to Explore  >>  Get a quick look at why ABA therapy is the gold standard early intervention for toddlers with autism as young as two.

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Functions of Behavior

In ABA therapy, we refer to the meaning behind a child’s behavior as a function. The functions or reasons behind behaviors can differ, of course, but they generally fall into four categories:

  • To Escape or avoid something
  • To get Attention from someone
  • To gain Access to something
  • To meet Sensory needs

Over the next few weeks here on our blog, we’re going to explore each of these four functions of behavior. You’ll learn what each function looks like, how ABA therapy can be used to identify and/or confirm the reason for a child’s behavior, and the best ways to respond for a better outcome.

Let’s start with the function of behavior known as Escape.

 

What the Escape function of behavior looks like

If a child runs away, avoids eye contact, or says “No!”, these are behaviors are often associated with a child wanting to Escape from a task or situation they’re trying to avoid. It could be they’re experiencing fear or anxiety. It also could be they’re overwhelmed or just not interested.

 

How we know it’s the Escape function

ABA therapists use the observational tool known as ABC to collect and analyze what’s going on with a child’s behavior. ABC is an acronym for:

            Antecedent – What happens right before a behavior

            Behavior – How a child reacts to the antecedent

            Consequence – What happens right after the behavior

 

So, in the case of the Escape function:

            The Antecedent could be a child being asked to pick up their toy.

            The Behavior could be the child saying, “No.”

            The Consequence could be a parent picking up the toy.

If the behavior of saying “No” stops, then we’ve confirmed the function or the reason for the child’s behavior is to Escape the task of picking up their toy.

Replacing unwanted behaviors using ABA therapy

It’s safe to say most people regardless of age can relate to wanting to avoid certain situations. We all want a chance to escape, and as an autonomous adult, we can communicate how we’re feeling by saying, “I need a break,” or “Give me a second,” or even walking away from a conversation. We honor the need of adults to take a minute. We should honor that need when it comes from kiddos, too.

Children with autism often need extra time and attention developing communication skills, and that’s where ABA therapy can help them find the words to adjust, prepare, and convey their need to postpone.

The goal is to replace unwanted behaviors of running away and avoidance with a positive behavior that ensures a child’s need are being met. We do that by providing them with the appropriate words to convey their needs, then honoring those needs. This teaches children there is a better way to express their needs than through escapism and avoidance.

A sign that you have a quality ABA therapy provider is their ability to provide a supportive environment where your child is being heard, their needs are being met, and they’re learning how to express themselves through communication, whether verbal or assisted.

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 More to Explore  >> Find the best ABA therapy providers in your area who have earned accreditation as a Behavioral Health Center of Excellence®.

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Take the Next Step

ABA therapy should be started during a child’s most formative years, between birth and 5 years of age. This period is when a child’s brain is making critical and foundational connections with everything in their environment – in other words, shaping their behavior.

Children with autism need extra help making those connections so they can learn and develop in ways that enable them to achieve their full potential in life.

We can help you identify, understand, and help shape your child’s behavior through expert and caring ABA therapy, including our fun, early start B.E.E.S. program and Parent Training.

You can’t escape a diagnosis of autism for your child. You can, however, give them the skills they need for a brighter future by choosing ABA therapy at The Behavior Exchange. We are proud to be the FIRST provider in North Texas and one of only a handful in all of Colorado to achieve the highest accreditation possible.

Your toddler deserves the best care. Get them started by completing our contact form or calling 972.312.8733. We serve awesome families from four locations in North Texas and the greater Boulder, Colorado, area.

Be sure to come back next week for Part 2 of our series on the functions of behavior, where attention-seeking behaviors will be in the spotlight. See you then if we don’t talk to you sooner!

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Ashvina attended University of Bombay and graduated with a Bachelors of Commerce. She got her Montessori Diploma in 1985 and taught ever since. Ashvina came to TBE in January of 2016 as Admin Assistant. During the years she got the opportunity to learn and work in different departments such as HR, Finance, Office Manager and Executive Assistant. Last summer TBE bought billing in house and her current focus area is Revenue Cycle Management. She is detail oriented and enjoys working with people. Ashvina volunteers to deliver meals to seniors and local shelters on the weekend. She loves to spend time with her family and grandkids. Ashvina loves her job because she enjoys hearing different points of view, and she feels her contributions help fuel the direction of our company.

Working with children comes naturally to Angela. Her mom was a special education teacher for 30 years and often had Angela join her for Take Your Child to Work Day. And in high school, Angela spent every summer as the nanny for a little boy with an autism spectrum disorder. It was this experience where her passion for working with children with autism started to blossom.

From there, she went on to graduate from Oklahoma State University with a Bachelor of Science in Human Development and Family Sciences. She learned about Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) in a non-normative development class and from that moment knew that ABA would be her life’s work.

Angela moved to the DFW area shortly after and began working at The Behavior Exchange as a therapist. She worked on her Master’s in Behavior Analysis at the same time. A year after graduating, she earned certification as a Board Certified Behavior Analyst.

Now, as a Clinical Director at The Behavior Exchange, she brings a life-long passion to her work, holding a special place in her heart for children with limited language skills and working closely with families to develop healthy sleep habits.

Danielle’s passion for working with families is deeply personal and from the heart. Her younger brother has an autism spectrum disorder, and through their journey as a family, she found her purpose in life as an advocate for individuals with special needs.

After graduating from the University of North Texas with a degree in Human Development and Family Studies, Danielle began volunteering at The Behavior Exchange. She saw passionate therapists, meaningful change for clients, and families with hope for the future. After a summer of volunteering, she officially joined the team as Director of Admissions and found her home with The Behavior Exchange family.

With her extensive experience working as a client advocate with insurance providers, Danielle perseveres to help individuals of all ages and abilities receive the services they need to reach their full potential. She feels truly honored by each and every family who entrusts The Behavior Exchange to be part of their journey and is committed to the organization’s core values, mission, and goal of being a beacon of hope for the community.

Adam has always had a passion for helping individuals of all ages thrive and reach their full potential. He’s also an enthusiastic musician, songwriter, leader, and devoted family man, who has been helping children and team members grow with The Behavior Exchange since 2010.

Prior to joining the team at The Behavior Exchange, Adam was a mortgage loan consultant and grad student, pursuing his master’s degree in Education at the University of North Texas. He graduated in 2013 and also earned a graduate academic certificate in Autism Intervention. The following year, after years as a Behavior Therapist and seeing first-hand the power of ABA and the meaningful impact it can have on children and their families, Adam became a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. He then commenced from the Stagen Leadership Academy after completing the Integral Leadership Program (ILP), a 52-week practice-based program designed to develop executives serious about transforming themselves, their teams, and their organizations.

Adam is truly grateful to be a part of a dynamic, inspiring and compassionate team, and he’s dedicated to bettering the lives of all children and their families through the delivery of the highest quality of ABA services, while supporting the amazing team at The Behavior Exchange.

Soraya is from South Africa and moved to Texas in 1996. She graduated from The University of Texas and pursued a career, at that time, in Education. Soraya taught at a Montessori school for a few years and then took on a leadership role.

During her time in the education system, Soraya realized her passion was to assist children with special needs. So she joined The Behavior Exchange as a therapist, transitioned into a supervisory role in 2017, and a year and a half later, was promoted to Clinical Operations Manager.

She quickly learned the ins and outs of ABA operations and scheduling and successfully collaborates across departments to ensure The Behavior Exchange continues to provide quality services to clients and their families. She’s thankful to be part of such an amazing organization and excited to see what the future holds.

You could say Walter’s career started when he spent hours as a young child drawing superheroes and coloring maps. This passion, along with extraordinary swimming skills, landed him a full swimming scholarship at Texas Christian University, where he graduated in 1997 with a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Communication Graphics.

During the next 13 years, his design and art direction skills, conceptual-thinking abilities, and marketing-savvy know-how were honed at a few prestigious advertising and marketing agencies around the Dallas area. In the mid 2000s, he helped his wife Tammy Cline-Soza (founder and CEO of The Behavior Exchange) create a unique and concise brand for her new business. From logos and websites to uniforms, brand voice and visuals, Walter has been the main creative force for all things The Behavior Exchange.

Aside from giving birth to The Behavior Exchange brand, Walter is helping Tammy raise two amazing, beautiful children, River and Sierra. In his spare time (the two minutes he’s got per week), you can find Walter illustrating iconic landmarks of Dallas and Texas or looking around for this next open-water swim. Once he gets back in shape.

After 20 years of building The Behavior Exchange, literally from the ground up,
Tammy couldn’t be more proud of the team, culture, and organization that it has become.

As a family helping families, The Behavior Exchanges looks for opportunities that will make the biggest impact and produce life-changing outcomes – for clients, families, and even for team members. Tammy believes that if a team, a family, a community takes care of each other, the possibilities are endless and the relationships built along the way can make life more enriching and challenges easier to navigate. You could say her goal has been to build a kind of utopia full of support, love, and expertise that brings the best services possible to the community and ensures more families have access to those services.

Tammy and her family have dedicated their lives to the mission of The Behavior Exchange and continue to grow, learn, cultivate, challenge, support, and create better models for success. To that end, she is committed to her own leadership development and actively participates in advanced training, mentoring, and deep self-exploration on how to live out her purpose to love and support her family and help others reach their full potential. She takes her position very seriously and tries to serve as a channel for what the universe wants to come to fruition.

She also loves travel, gardening, being creative, MUSIC!, tennis, yoga, meditation, journaling, reading, being in nature, adventures, and more than anything, spending time with her husband Walter and their two beautiful children, River and Sierra.