9 family Valentine's activities to love and learn from
Happy Valentine’s Day from The Behavior Exchange! We love this holiday and not just because of the near endless supply of delicious chocolate. It’s great and all, but what’s even better is helping families spend quality time together, build stronger bonds, and support the development of their kiddos social and communications skills. And the holiday that’s all about the heart is a terrific opportunity to do just that.
So, we’ve gathered together a list of fun and easy activities you can try this Valentine’s with your kiddo and family that will help reinforce important social and communication skills all children need to thrive in school and reach their full potential in life.
If you have any questions or concerns about your child’s social development, please reach out to our team of autism and ABA therapy pros. We’d love to share our knowledge with you and explore how we can help. Our Social Skills Groups are perfect for school-aged kids!
Valentine's fun for kiddos with autism and their families
Family group activities, like the ones below, can help your kiddo learn and practice social and communication skills, such as taking turns, holding a conversation, recognizing emotions on faces, and much, much more. You can even make any of these activities a family tradition that you do every year!
1) Role play giving and receiving Valentine’s card.
This could be something you do ahead of time to prepare your child for Valentine’s celebrations at school. Walk them through the interactions step by step, including what to say. Be sure to praise their efforts and when they do something right. You can also create or use a ready-made social story that you can give to your kiddo as a learning tool and reminder.
2) Valentine’s sensory bins.
You can make them together and have fun watching your kiddos dig into the squishy, gooey, sparkly, colorful creations with hidden Valentine’s trinkets. Here’s some inspiration to get you started.
3) Cook a heart-shaped pizza.
This is all about having fun, cooking dinner together as a family. Everyone can contribute with putting it together and watching it cook. Clean up can also be a family activity. And don’t forget to sprinkle conversation along the way. Here’s an easy peasy recipe.
4) A Valentine’s Day read-aloud.
Choose a children’s book about love, giving, or emotions that you read aloud to your whole family, then talk about the ideas in the book together. Here are some books to check out:
In My Heart: A Book of Feelings by Jo Witek
5) Valentine’s minute-to-win-it games.
Add a little family competition to your celebration that works to teach children the social skill of sportsmanship, while having fun with others. Here’s a winning list of games especially for Valentine’s.
6) Find-the-heart hot or cold game.
Make hearts out of construction paper, write a name on each heart, and tape a Valentine’s treat to the back. Send one family member out of the room, while the rest of you hide the hearts. Invite the family member back in to start searching for a heart based on you telling them “Hot”, “Warm”, “Cold”, “Freezing”, etc. The finder gives the heart to the person whose name is on it, wishing them, “Happy Valentine’s Day!” Be sure to give everyone a chance to find a heart.
7) Make a tree of love.
Draw a tree trunk and branches on a large piece of paper or poster board. Set it aside as you make paper hearts that will be added to the tree like big leaves. Make one heart larger than the other and attach a picture of your child on it. Next, write on each heart something you love about your child/sibling or a name or picture of someone who loves them. Glue all the hearts on the tree and place the larger heart under the branches. Once dry, display the tree where your child can see it.
8) Random acts of kindness jar.
Create a list of nice things you can do for each other throughout the day or week of Valentine’s Day. Each time you do an act of kindness, color a paper heart and place it in the jar. At the end of the day or week, have a conversation as a family about how your acts of kindness made you feel and how it impacted those who were on the receiving end.
9) “I love you because… letters.
Everyone in your family choose another family member to write a letter to. Start the letters with “I love you because…” and then make a list of what you love and appreciate about that family member. Once everybody is done, share what you wrote with the family member either by handing them the letter or reading them aloud for all to hear and enjoy.
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