Fourth of July and Children with Autism.
Are you wondering if you should take your family out to enjoy a July 4th celebration with the noisy fireworks, loud music, crowded spaces, and people with pets in tow? It’s a daunting task for any parent, especially if you have a child with autism.
We get a lot of questions from parents about how to anticipate and mitigate unwanted behaviors in public. You and your ABA therapist know your child best, so seeking their expert advice is the first thing you should do. The second thing you should do is follow that advice.
Here are a few things we suggest to parents that can help children have some fun and create good memories for the whole family.
1. Prepare. Don’t wing it. Preparing is taking a little time beforehand to think through what you’ll be doing at the event from start to finish and whether or not any triggering circumstances might be involved. Once you have a plan down, introduce it to your child and tell them step-by-step what the day will entail. You can even show them a video of fireworks and gradually turn up the volume to see if there’s any discomfort. The idea here is to avoid any surprises – for you and your child.
2. Give your child an escape. Noise-canceling headphones or earplugs, sunglasses or a hat, a small pop-up tent, a weighted blanket (if the temperature allows), personal comfort items, and a sensory-friendly area set up by event organizers. Anything or anywhere that will enable your child to get away from the sights and sounds that are part and parcel of the Fourth of July. There’s always the familiar comfort of your car if nothing else seems to be working.
3. Keep eyes on your child at all times. This is so important because children with autism can wander off quickly. For two-parent households or if your outing includes at least two adults, you can divide up the responsibility of watching your child and designate a time when handoffs occur. It’s also a good idea when you’re walking through crowded spaces to have an adult on each side of the child, like bookends. If it’s just you and your child, always keep your hands on them when you’re in a crowd.
4. Roll with the punches. Forcing fun never works in the best of circumstances, so go into it knowing your plans may not turn out as expected. If that happens, simply do what’s best for your child, you, and your family. If that means leaving the event early and taking the celebration to your backyard or patio, go for it. You may stumble onto a new family tradition!
We hope you find these suggestions helpful and wish you a very happy Fourth from our family to yours!
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