Why is my child behaving like that? – Part 3

Hello again! We hope you’ve been enjoying our look at the four functions of behavior – what we in ABA therapy refer to as the reasons behind behaviors of children with autism. If you’re new to our series, links to the first two parts are highlighted below.

In general, the reasons behind behaviors fall into these four categories:

  • To Escape or avoid something (See Part 1)
  • To get Attention from someone (See Part 2)
  • To gain Access to something
  • To meet a child’s Sensory needs

Today’s blog is all about #3 on our list, the Access function of behavior. You might not realize it, but your behavior getting to this article is an example of the Access function! You clicked a button on our website, in an email, or on a social media post to read this article. So, the reason behind your behavior was you wanted access to this blog.

Children wouldn’t want to read our blog, but they might want access to a toy, a food item, or their favorite activity. How they behave to get what they want and how ABA therapy helps us respond in the best way are the topics we’ll explore in this blog.

One goal of ABA therapy is to help kiddos with autism and other developmental concerns replace unwanted behaviors with alternative behaviors that ensure their needs are being met and support their well-being. The first step in reaching our goal is to identify the function of an unwanted behavior. Then, we can start work on helping a child learn a new one.

 

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What the Attention function looks like

There are many ways a child can behave to get access to something they want. They can ask politely if they can and know how. They can go after what they want, like grabbing at something or running towards it. They can also cry or have a tantrum. Keep in mind that if a child learns crying or other unwanted behavior works to gain them access to something they want, they’re likely to repeat that behavior. The reverse is also true. If a child’s behavior no longer works to gain access to something they want, the behavior will stop and a new behavior will take its place.

 

How we know it’s an Access behavior 

ABA therapists use the observational tool known as ABC to collect data and analyze what’s going on with a child’s behavior. ABC is an acronym for:

 

Antecedent – What happens right before a behavior

Behavior – How a child reacts to the antecedent

Consequence – What happens right after the behavior

 

Here’s an example of an access behavior using the ABC method:

The Antecedent could be a child sees another child playing with a toy they want.

The Behavior is the child runs off to get the toy.

The Consequence is the parent stops the child from getting to the toy, and the child starts to cry.

           

Since the child continued to act out, we’ve confirmed the function or the reason for the child’s behavior was to gain access to the toy.

 

How ABA therapy can help 

ABA therapists focus on changing the Consequences of behaviors. We help children learn new behaviors that can replace unwanted ones, while ensuring the needs of the child are still being met.

Using the Antecedent-Behavior-Consequence example above, an ABA therapist can change the consequence of the behavior to use it as a learning moment for the child. Instead of denying the child the toy they want, the therapist could acknowledge the child wants the toy and teach them a replacement behavior by saying to the child, “You can say ‘I want to go play with that.'” Teaching them to communicate their needs replaces the behavior of acting out.

It’s about finding a way to say YES to a child when they want to engage with an item or activity. If what a child wants is not immediately available or doable, we remind the child of what is necessary before accessing the item or activity they want. For example, if a child wants to go outside, we might say, “We can definitely go outside. First, let’s finish (whatever they’re in the middle of), then we can go outside.”

If a child gets frustrated about delaying going outside, we use that as a teaching moment as well by saying, “I know you’re upset that we can’t go outside right now. Would you like me to set a timer so you know when we’ll be done?”

We teach these ABA therapy techniques and others to our clients, so they can continue to reinforce positive behaviors in their interactions with their children. Don’t be afraid to talk with your child’s BCBA and therapists for advice. A sign that you have a quality ABA therapy provider is their focus on a holistic approach that supports the needs of children as well as their families.

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When ABA therapy should be started

For the best outcomes, children should start ABA therapy as soon as they are reliably diagnosed around the age of 2. It’s this period between birth and 5 years of age when children’s brains are forming a foundation for learning as they make vital connections with everything in their environment, shaping their behavior. Children with autism need extra help making those connections so they can learn and develop in ways that enable them to achieve their full potential in life.

We can help you identify, understand, and help shape your child’s behavior through expert and caring ABA therapy services, including our fun, early start B.E.E.S. program and Parent Training. By enrolling your child in ABA therapy early, you’re giving them the skills they need for a brighter future!

Get them started by completing our contact form or calling 972.312.8733. We serve awesome families from three locations in Plano, Frisco, and Prosper, and we’re the FIRST ABA therapy provider in all of North Texas to earn the highest accreditation possible – the prestigious 3-year accreditation as a Behavioral Health Center of Excellence®.

Be sure to watch for the last installment of our series on the function of behavior. It will be all about behaviors that meet the sensory needs of kiddos. If you have any questions in the meantime, don’t hesitate to reach out to our autism and ABA therapy experts. Just email [email protected].

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Working with children comes naturally to Angela. Her mom was a special education teacher for 30 years and often had Angela join her for Take Your Child to Work Day. And in high school, Angela spent every summer as the nanny for a little boy with an autism spectrum disorder. It was this experience where her passion for working with children with autism started to blossom.

From there, she went on to graduate from Oklahoma State University with a Bachelor of Science in Human Development and Family Sciences. She learned about Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) in a non-normative development class and from that moment knew that ABA would be her life’s work.

Angela moved to the DFW area shortly after and began working at The Behavior Exchange as a therapist. She worked on her Master’s in Behavior Analysis at the same time. A year after graduating, she earned certification as a Board Certified Behavior Analyst.

Now, as a Clinical Director at The Behavior Exchange, she brings a life-long passion to her work, holding a special place in her heart for children with limited language skills and working closely with families to develop healthy sleep habits.

Danielle’s passion for working with families is deeply personal and from the heart. Her younger brother has an autism spectrum disorder, and through their journey as a family, she found her purpose in life as an advocate for individuals with special needs.

After graduating from the University of North Texas with a degree in Human Development and Family Studies, Danielle began volunteering at The Behavior Exchange. She saw passionate therapists, meaningful change for clients, and families with hope for the future. After a summer of volunteering, she officially joined the team as Director of Admissions and found her home with The Behavior Exchange family.

With her extensive experience working as a client advocate with insurance providers, Danielle perseveres to help individuals of all ages and abilities receive the services they need to reach their full potential. She feels truly honored by each and every family who entrusts The Behavior Exchange to be part of their journey and is committed to the organization’s core values, mission, and goal of being a beacon of hope for the community.

Adam has always had a passion for helping individuals of all ages thrive and reach their full potential. He’s also an enthusiastic musician, songwriter, leader, and devoted family man, who has been helping children and team members grow with The Behavior Exchange since 2010.

Prior to joining the team at The Behavior Exchange, Adam was a mortgage loan consultant and grad student, pursuing his master’s degree in Education at the University of North Texas. He graduated in 2013 and also earned a graduate academic certificate in Autism Intervention. The following year, after years as a Behavior Therapist and seeing first-hand the power of ABA and the meaningful impact it can have on children and their families, Adam became a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. He then commenced from the Stagen Leadership Academy after completing the Integral Leadership Program (ILP), a 52-week practice-based program designed to develop executives serious about transforming themselves, their teams, and their organizations.

Adam is truly grateful to be a part of a dynamic, inspiring and compassionate team, and he’s dedicated to bettering the lives of all children and their families through the delivery of the highest quality of ABA services, while supporting the amazing team at The Behavior Exchange.

Soraya is from South Africa and moved to Texas in 1996. She graduated from The University of Texas and pursued a career, at that time, in Education. Soraya taught at a Montessori school for a few years and then took on a leadership role.

During her time in the education system, Soraya realized her passion was to assist children with special needs. So she joined The Behavior Exchange as a therapist, transitioned into a supervisory role in 2017, and a year and a half later, was promoted to Clinical Operations Manager.

She quickly learned the ins and outs of ABA operations and scheduling and successfully collaborates across departments to ensure The Behavior Exchange continues to provide quality services to clients and their families. She’s thankful to be part of such an amazing organization and excited to see what the future holds.

You could say Walter’s career started when he spent hours as a young child drawing superheroes and coloring maps. This passion, along with extraordinary swimming skills, landed him a full swimming scholarship at Texas Christian University, where he graduated in 1997 with a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Communication Graphics.

During the next 13 years, his design and art direction skills, conceptual-thinking abilities, and marketing-savvy know-how were honed at a few prestigious advertising and marketing agencies around the Dallas area. In the mid 2000s, he helped his wife Tammy Cline-Soza (founder and CEO of The Behavior Exchange) create a unique and concise brand for her new business. From logos and websites to uniforms, brand voice and visuals, Walter has been the main creative force for all things The Behavior Exchange.

Aside from giving birth to The Behavior Exchange brand, Walter is helping Tammy raise two amazing, beautiful children, River and Sierra. In his spare time (the two minutes he’s got per week), you can find Walter illustrating iconic landmarks of Dallas and Texas or looking around for this next open-water swim. Once he gets back in shape.

After 20 years of building The Behavior Exchange, literally from the ground up,
Tammy couldn’t be more proud of the team, culture, and organization that it has become.

As a family helping families, The Behavior Exchanges looks for opportunities that will make the biggest impact and produce life-changing outcomes – for clients, families, and even for team members. Tammy believes that if a team, a family, a community takes care of each other, the possibilities are endless and the relationships built along the way can make life more enriching and challenges easier to navigate. You could say her goal has been to build a kind of utopia full of support, love, and expertise that brings the best services possible to the community and ensures more families have access to those services.

Tammy and her family have dedicated their lives to the mission of The Behavior Exchange and continue to grow, learn, cultivate, challenge, support, and create better models for success. To that end, she is committed to her own leadership development and actively participates in advanced training, mentoring, and deep self-exploration on how to live out her purpose to love and support her family and help others reach their full potential. She takes her position very seriously and tries to serve as a channel for what the universe wants to come to fruition.

She also loves travel, gardening, being creative, MUSIC!, tennis, yoga, meditation, journaling, reading, being in nature, adventures, and more than anything, spending time with her husband Walter and their two beautiful children, River and Sierra.